I never plan my life to be the way it was going, things were hard, I stop going to work because I was pregnant . Tobe is free out there enjoying life while am suffering with three months pregnant, he no longer call or chat me I decided to call he won't pick the call, I made up my mind to visit the family so we could talk, he still dodge me. I waited patiently about two weeks before going back to the family house, I met her mother making their native soup, She is a fair woman well composed, I greeted her she answered and ask who I was , I simply answer her am your son's girlfriend and am pregnant for him, she looked up at me and maintain her quite nature "she spoke are you people not afraid of contacting virus why don't we use condom" I was surprised because I was not expecting it, she said okay I should inform my parents, then she will contract her husband, the husband is not staying with them due to health issues. After making the arrangements I left the house. I continue managing until the day both parents agreed to settle the matter. When we arrive they were already waiting for us inside the house with the father present, I entered I saw him there but I avoided eye contact with him. The mother was the first person to start the discussion of the day, her statement made my dad angry they exchange few words before we continue the meeting.
Finally the mother drop the bomb that her son has paid someone's bride Price last week Saturday I was shock no wonder he avoids my call. The mother now ask him do you know her, he said, yes that I was his girlfriend. Are the you the father of her baby?he said yes. The mother said the family we cover the medical expenses that the son will not marry me , he already have a wife.
Meanwhile the father has not utter any word except they he is not aware that his son is married. My parents looked at each other and understand what is going on. On my own I didn't argue or say anything because I know I have destroyed myself with my own hand. They ask if I have anything to say , I answered no. They served us drinks as their visitors, we drank because according to my father we are civilize people all my attempts to stop them for taking it was futile. After the little party we left the house . The next I received a call from him, he asked if we could met up to discuss in a hotel, I thought about it and expect meeting up with him. The next day I told my parents âm going to my friends house, they expected because she was doing well for her. I went straight to the address he gave me, when I got there, he was waiting for me, we greeted and we entered the room. We are discussing on what happens to us, suddenly he started touching, pressing my breast, from then he kissed me. On my own side I was begging him stop whatever he was planning inside his but he did not listen, I even trait to shout he said go ahead, I was powerless he was like another human being, he said "I miss you baby." I wanted it to be true but I will not decieve myself again all is a lie to have his way with me. I was lucky enough that day because a staff lock at the door to deliver what he has ordered for his pregnant girlfriend. The matured woman that served the food look at me and ask if I am okay out of concern, I didn't hide my feelings and said yes that I want to leave the room. He did not argue with woman seeing the condition of the room, he simply said babe we can sort this out, I look at him and did my final farewell, I looked at the monster I have loved for a while. I decided I will not abort the baby, I will have my baby and raise her well with the help of my parents. Another challenge I was facing then is how will I tell chidi I had a Child, because he called on december to met up him, I just lied to him.