Hualing listened to Cheng Su talk about the rationale for most of the day, and her mind suddenly became clear. Indeed, people need to be persuaded, and they need friends with clear and correct values.
The most beneficial advice she received was that for a couple to get along happily, it requires careful management. As a wife, one should not be extreme in attitude; instead, be gentle. Words shouldn't be as sharp as knives; even if spoken unintentionally, can they be taken back once spoken?
Often, many hurtful words are spoken without control over one's emotions. Isn't that how it was between her and Chen Shouwang?
Since they chose to continue their life together, if they want it to be good, improving one's emotional intelligence in every aspect is essential.
Of course, this is not about pleasing men, but for one's own well-being. Who wouldn't prefer to be close to a gentle and kind woman rather than a sharp-tongued one?
