If in life you are too dependent on others, perhaps you won't achieve true happiness.
Because only you can truly understand what you need for yourself. You don't need others to be good to you. In that case, you will become very strong, and you will become fearless.
Safety, the sense of security, doesn't really exist. If you always rely on others to give you a sense of security, then you certainly won't have any, because this is something only you can give yourself. You can control all your actions, and you can bring yourself a great deal of happiness.
As long as you want to live this way, you are certain to achieve such happiness. As long as you desire to be happy and live blissfully, then you will surely find happiness.
