A happy life always belongs to oneself, no one wants to live a life of pain!
"I don't understand why you think I would believe every word you say, nor do I understand why you're so confident in coming to tell me these things.
If I were you, I would choose to never say certain things in my lifetime as it's the best outcome for both of us. Some words clearly shouldn't be spoken, yet you choose to say them to me here. Isn't your intention to make me uncomfortable? If you really don't want me to live well, why come and deliberately cause trouble?"
"Chen Gang, once some things are chosen, there's no turning back. Since this is the path chosen, then no one should blame anyone else. Once you've made a decision, you must see it through to the end, even if it means kneeling all the way.
