As someone raised in a loving family with no quarrels and beatings happening, to find herself in a situation where she should tolerate all that nonsense for the sake of a child who one day might support her own father. That will be the same as trying to kill her.
"I remember how it felt being emotionally abused by my ex, the backer that taught me that not all that glitters is gold. It was horrible. It made me question my life choices so much to the extent of thinking extreme measures.
I don't have a child now, and fortunately I don't have an abusive boyfriend, or found myself in a sad relationship. If I am not happy in any relationship, I leave. I will not sabotage my happiness for any reason.
The same is true when it comes to marriage and having children. I don't believe that when I am not happy or finding it difficult to hold on, I should continue despite having children."
"Does that mean that you can leave your marriage and even abandon your children?"
